Listen! this is what happens: most men actually have greater access to their sub conscience as compared to girls, this explains why girls can easily move on in the events of breaks ups. Not to generalize that men are attached and girls are detached but it all depends on how well you understand your emotional needs and the way you handle them. Most girls too are attached when they try pushing their feelings deeper into the hard-disk (sub). The objective here is not the reaction of either gender to handling emotions but all humans(makes sense). We should always make sure to keep our hearts burden free, let it be free from every such things that would cause it pain later. This is a harder task and many have been trying to master the art of detachment from ages but still were not successful in giving a formula to achieve this bliss. Quite a few are blessed to born with it and some based on their circumstances learn the art without actually being aware of it.
Some of the observations made, analyzing people close to me who are actually dettached are as follows:
1: The never stick to one thought at any instance of time. Dynamic change in thought process is their play game.
2. They are weak at expressing anger or love. Yes, when it comes to expressing emotions they fall on their knees.
3. They don't linger in thoughts for a long time but rather are forgetful all times. This is what makes them great sleeping people who fall asleep in seconds.
4. They bother about their family a lot. In this process they receive a lot love from home which keeps them from searching love elsewhere.
5.They hate physical expression of care and concern. Let them lite, they are always the best people to hang out with.
6. They search for novelty everywhere and in the events of routine too they get adjusted pretty well without complaining.
7. They are never lonely or rather don't feel lonely. Yes they seek company in every trivial things, thus avoiding boredom.
8. They never validate any feeling because they never feel anything for longer. Free heart is their choice.
9. They are mostly liars,flirts,shrewd,intelligent and sometimes envious. But at last they are the most loveable people to live with because they forget everything and become plain in seconds.
10. The best comes here: They make you envious in how they handle their emotions. They don't give a damn for anything that can cause pain at heart. They dont really know this but they do it, this is what makes them special.
Abhishek,aka Ba, is the inspiration behind this research and he is the major character for the above postulates. Anyway I'll tell you how to handle some of such situations. Always seek happiness of whose definition you write. What others say or do is of your least concern. Don't take anything serious enough to keep yourself immersed in thoughts. Please remember this life is a journey, co-passengers keep coming and they leave when their stop comes, so with people at various stages of our lives. Seek love at home it will keep you away from lot odds. Keep changing your thoughts very rapidly and give little attention to thoughts where people's character or their interactions are involved. A hug is just a token of affection and nothing more to push a different inertia.
So, always keep the heart and brain light. Things become easier when you start taking them a little less seriously. This is just the first script and if you wondered this page summarizes six years of research then you are wrong. Take a chill pill i'll be back soon with another entry. See you soon!!!